Caring for a parent from a distance
You cannot be there for every tablet, every appointment, every glass of water. Remindly says each reminder out loud at the right time, so the person you care for hears it — and for the things that matter most, like medication, it tells you when they're taken — or when they're not — without your having to ring and ask.
Remindly is free to use. No card, no trial that runs out, no limit on how many reminders you set.
What it looks like at their end
A tablet or computer sits somewhere they already spend time — the kitchen table, beside a favourite chair — with Remindly open on the screen, the way a clock sits on a shelf. When a reminder is due, it speaks: "Take your morning medication."
The screen lists the day's reminders in large type, each with two buttons: Done and Snooze. Nothing to install, no password to remember, no menus to get lost in.
What it looks like at yours
- You set the reminders up — medication, appointments, a walk after lunch — from your own phone or computer, wherever you happen to be.
- They hear them at home, spoken aloud, without having to read a screen or open an app.
- Remindly tells you when it counts — you can see the whole day at a glance, and for medication it can email you when a dose is taken, or when one has been missed, so checking in does not have to mean another phone call asking whether they remembered.
Alongside the reminders that repeat, there is a shared list of the one-off things — a prescription to collect, an appointment on Thursday, the grocery delivery someone needs to be in for. If more than one of you is helping, you can each take what you can and see what the others have picked up.
Two things worth knowing before you set this up.
Remindly speaks through the page, so that page needs to stay open on their device — think of it as leaving a clock on the counter rather than an app you open when you need it. Close the tab and nothing is spoken.
And browsers will not play sound until someone has touched the screen, so on an iPad Remindly asks for a single tap after it starts up. It remembers anything it could not say and speaks it once you do.
What it costs
Nothing. Remindly is free to use — every reminder, every caregiver you link, every email it sends you. There is no card to enter and no trial that quietly ends.
It is early software, and being useful to people matters more right now than being paid for. If that ever changes, anyone already using Remindly will hear it from us first, and well before it does.
If that sounds like there must be a catch, the questions page says plainly why there isn't — along with what Remindly deliberately does not do.
Getting started
Enter your email on the sign-in page and Remindly sends you a link. There is no password to choose or remember, and nothing to install.
The first time you sign in, Remindly asks one question — whether you are setting it up for someone else or will be receiving the reminders yourself — and takes you straight in. No waiting, and you can change that answer later from your profile.
The guide walks through setting up a first reminder once you are in, and the questions page covers what this looks like in practice — including what Remindly deliberately does not do.
The monthly note
One useful thing a month about caring for a parent at a distance, and a line on what has changed in Remindly. You will also get the printable daily routine sheet — though that one is free to anybody, list or no list.